That Your Tongue
“say aaaa” the dentist instructs his patient as he checks
his teeth to know what the problem is.
The teeth can be fixed, but what about the pink princess it
shields?
Oh, she is a charming personality.
Not rare at all…not rare.
She wiggles non-stop, back and forth.
Wanting to give everyone a piece of her.
Now, look at you.
You have people at your beck and call
You’re not a king, just the head.
You like perfection and wear out those who help you
A single mistake leads to a thorough tongue lashing.
Maka why now?
You hurt people…you bring them down, embarrass and insult
them at every given chance.
You never check yourself or the cause of the mistake
No, you just assume and insult!
You might not realize it but you are weakening someone,
You are the cause of someone’s depression
And the reason for the person’s insomnia.
WE’RE ALL HUMANS!!
We all make mistakes. Before you insult anyone, know that we
can’t always do things perfectly.
You never take your time to realize it wasn’t an intentional
act. It was a mistake.
You never realize you were wrong to insult the person.
You just acted out of anger.
Yet you won’t listen to an explanation.
“shut up! Don’t argue with me” is what you say
Don’t we all have rights to the freedom of speech?!
If you can express your anger why can’t the person explain
the cause of the mistake?
Just so you know
You’re hurting someone’s esteem.
You’re making someone weak.
You’re making someone feel like he can’t ever do anything
right.
Because of your lack of patience!
You say anything anyhow when you’re angry.
You don’t calm down to analyze the fact!
And most times YOU’RE THE FAULT!
But you won’t hear of it!
No, you blame everyone but yourself.
Accuse everyone but you!
And you think you’ll have true friends?
You never can.
Why?
No one will tell you you’re an ungrateful monster
Because you won’t listen.
You never listen.
You’re the fault because you refuse to listen to other
people’s opinion.
You only think of yourself and your opinions
Your empty and ever-so-unproductive opinions.
The warning has been issued gradually.
They told you.
You refused to take correction.
Then everything goes wrong
And the blame is pushed on someone.
Even if you try to make up by having laughs with the person
do you think you can repair the dents on the person’s confidence?
You’ve made a lot of mistakes
And you never learn from them, but you want others to learn
from theirs for your benefit,
How inconsiderate of you.
Keep your anger in check.
The walls you keep breaking with your nasty tongue
Can’t be rebuilt,
And they can, it will take twice or thrice the time used to
build them.
If you keep acting foolishly out of anger
It will be your trademark.
That’s what they’ll know you for.
The one who always blames and insults everyone.
You’ve hurt someone and caused a lot of mental illness in someone
You’re seen as cruel and inconsiderate,
You keep brewing storm with your immaturity.
Your anger keeps controlling you…it’s high time you learnt
to control it fast before you get broken yourself.
But it’s not a bad idea if you do get broken.
Then you’ll realize how everyone feels when you act the way
you always do.
And you may not be fixed, because you lack patience.
So, before you break another unfixable thing.
PAUSE.
Pause before you assume,
Pause before you carry out a judgement,
Pause before you insult someone,
Pause before you jump into a conclusion
Pause before you get angry.
Love this💖,great write up
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